Life isn't about finding yourself.
Life is about creating yourself.
                               - George Bernard Shaw


Have you ever wondered whether you are who you want to be or you are who others want to see? The prompt answer can be that I know who I am and what I want, but on a deeper level, one doesn't really know about oneself. I'm buying iPhones because that's the latest hype, branded shoes and clothes are eye-catching and high standard. But does it really matter? Are we really free? Maybe yes, maybe no.
Introspection is the Answer to this dilemma. In this busy world,  one should strive towards finding time for oneself( time when you are in conversation with yourself). During this time, one can think of all the possible options.
Never Regret the Road not taken. 
Life is all about making decisions. Even when you decide not to choose , you are choosing by not choosing.
So never look back. Think about ways of improvement.
Create yourself. 
Don't be what others want you to be. Be the real YOU. That "you" might not be liked by majority, yet that "you" is true. Start writing a diary. Pour your own thoughts and mind into it. Share your emotions with it and get back to it every time you think you are losing yourself.